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Where do you live? Most places seem to have a "downtown" area. Go walk around by yourself and explore, go to shops, cafes, and bars. Also if you like music, start going to shows. Not just big concerts but check out local bar acts. Tell people you meet that you're new in town and ask for suggestions of where to go and things to do. I'm sure it's a little easier for me as I'm a female, but I'm sure it works for guys too.
Also be cool / relaxed. Even if you only make one friend try to keep communication a 2 way street and don't jump the gun and let things get too one sided. I say this because I have a friend who is in a similar situation and is trying to meet new people. He moved away and his girl of 12 years left him a few months ago for another dude. So he's stuck in a city full of strangers, in his 30's and he's never had to re-socialize before. He works in an office so that works to his advantage but he keeps doing things like coming on too strong, sending too many texts, etc. So just remember to play it cool. Despiration is a stinky cologne.
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