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Originally Posted by LadyMischief
For sure.. Well see for us it works out because it's harder to find chemistry between couples than it is singles.. but that doesn't mean we don't rock the couples. You gotta do what you're comfortable with together, and there has to be a dialogue. As long as the communication is open and honest, and nobody is playing games, hiding secrets, or whatever, anything can be worked out. If the focus is on the relationship with your mate, that's when things go well. If I were to ask hubby not to see someone or vice versa, that would be the end of it, no questions asked, no arguing.... The mate always comes FIRST!
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You're right. And that's the same with us. There's been girls Perrie liked and wanted and I've said no to ... and vice versa. And it's not a "No you can't have her" ... it's a "Hmm, she's not my type" or "I'm not feeling like I wanna do it tonight"
Easy enough to say "ok, no worries!" It really isn't that big a deal to either of us. It's also not a life ruling choice. it's a lifestyle choice. In other words, if you decide not to do it for a while, like we did two years ago ... you don't. If you wanna pick back up, you do! I personally only enjoy it because I'm doing it with Perrie. I've slept with enough women to know that she's by far the best I've ever had. So many people here seem to have shitty relationships or none at all and don't like the idea that some people are happy and will be forever! lol.