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Originally Posted by Twisted Dave
Excellent and although we're not in an open relationship in the same way ... it's the same principal.
I don't think just because you have an open relationship that you're gonna split or argue over it ... and I don't think just because we're in just softswing style situation that we're going to want to move to open. People have to judge and assign some kind of rule to these things. Those people don't get it because they're not lucky enough to GET IT! lol
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For sure.. Well see for us it works out because it's harder to find chemistry between couples than it is singles.. but that doesn't mean we don't rock the couples. You gotta do what you're comfortable with together, and there has to be a dialogue. As long as the communication is open and honest, and nobody is playing games, hiding secrets, or whatever, anything can be worked out. If the focus is on the relationship with your mate, that's when things go well. If I were to ask hubby not to see someone or vice versa, that would be the end of it, no questions asked, no arguing.... The mate always comes FIRST!