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Originally Posted by d-null
I know that trying to make someone change is often futile though and leads to more stress and unhappiness, than just letting it be and doing your best within yourself, perhaps the person may change a little bit on their own, but I don't think any case of trying to make a guy change and bringing in counsellors or therapists and all that bs will ever have a happy outcome
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Very rarely do "professionals" really have much effect...they usually just make things worse. But yeah...when someone has a problem, they need to work it out on their own. One can only ever change one's own problems. What I'm suggesting, really, is perhaps a change of "distraction"...perhaps they need to go out and do things aside from the norm. Routine can be a real mindkiller, so maybe they just need a change of pace.