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Originally Posted by Nodtveidt
NikKay, I used to be a .....
Now what I'm NOT saying is to "just let it be". There is clearly a problem at hand. What I am saying though is that this is a problem that is not going to be solved easily, and in all reality, a therapist is likely gonna make it worse, not better. If anything, he needs a new form of escape, and it sounds like you do too.
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you are reading too much psychological gobbledygook into the situation, you might be right, but your own situation might be way off from his, but that doesn't matter as much as when you say that "he needs a new form of escape", why is that? if he is happy with the form of escape he has now,
then he may not want anything to change other than the stress he is getting from her about it 