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Originally Posted by BeHeadR
What are you, a total amateur?
She's just testing you man - you made massive mistakes in talking on the phone too much and talking for 4 hours on Thursday....you are WAAAAY too available and you turned her off.
So just play it cool, make sure she knows you still went out and had a great time....don't DIRECTLY tell her you were out with another chick, just make the implication.
Freeze her out for a few days, then give her a call when you are doing something casual....be like "Hey I'm on my way to the shooting range (or whatever you like to do) want to tag along?" That way it's not a "date"....but it IS a date....see what I did thar?
Don't be needy, don't be available - from the sounds of it you might have already came off way to strong....do what I said - freeze her out - and you might have a chance at recovery.
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you read it totally wrong man, she knows me by reputation, i used to throw the biggest fetish parties here in Denver.
http://www.westword.com/2005-05-19/n...out-the-kinks/
She's liked me for a long time. and i guess we rolled together a couple of years back, although i don't remember it. It was cool, it was what it was, no apologies for that. But I hear you man, that she could be spinning it like that on the game, but i don't think so. Sad thing is that i won't ever call her again. She's already done, she just doesn't know it yet
