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Wow MrPheer that is quite a lot you went through. Congrats for surviving through that. God you took some serious crap with all that.
One thing with adoption and related things is I do think kids have a right to know.
My ex-wife's father and mother divorced when she was 7. There were about 6 kids in the family. Her father met a woman after the divorce and they eventually got married. Before they were married the woman fucked another guy she met at a bar and got pregnant. She did tell my ex's dad that she was pregnant with another guy, but they decided not to abort the baby and keep it. So a little girl named Sandy was born. She went through her entire childhood thinking that was her real dad. They never told her anything.
At about 18 years old they had a big family reunion in Chicago for the fathers side of the family. Sandy went to it. In the front reception area to the party they had a huge wall chart made of the family tree. Sandy was looking at it and got puzzled why all her brothers and sisters were shown but not her name.
She went up to one of the women and said do you know why I'm not on there? They just looked down and walked away. She started to freak at this point and ran to her mother and brought her to the family tree and demanded to know why she wasn't shown.
It was then that they told her that who she had thought was her father all those years since birth really wasn't. She went nutzo over it for many months until she was able to come to terms with the reality that her real father was a one night stand and she'd never meet him.
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