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Originally Posted by chaze
I don't deny it that I'm somewhat whipped, but if I waited for her to pay we would just sit around... she doesn't have the money to take trips and go to the type of restaurants I like. I really think if she had more money she would dish out, she always offers to split the bill and sometimes insists no matter what I say.
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the fact that you do these things for her should make her 1000x more understanding.
honestly you are not trying to convince me you are trying to convince yourself why it is ok for her to be telling you to shut down your site.
do you cheat on her?
do you plan on cheating on her?
if the answer to both is no than there is 0 reason behind her asking other than purely testing you.
you should date someone who is an extension of you the second you start trying to change yourself to fit a different mold you will NEVER be happy it is impossible. these are those crossroads times when you look back a year down and say "dam if i woulda manned up i coulda had it all".