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Originally posted by howard
Been married and divorced twice..
To everyone who says how fucked up marraige is and how screwed they are just a little lesson for you all.
It's not them its you. See, us guys all put on that act in the beggining. Acting all nice, acting all lovey-dovey, holding are farts in, not watching as much sports and acting all the ways we wouldn't act if we were still alone.
The answer--be yourself. Don't accept any bullshit from day 1. Always lay it on the line and be your usual prick self from the get go. This way there is no surprises.
If she is spending all your money thats because your stupid enough to accept it. If in the beginning you put on a act like your a bigshot and buy her all types of shit--then its your fault because she is used to it.
Just being honest..
And I said all the same shit "angelsofporn" is saying. And my last x was a JAP-BITCH. When we divorced she had 137 pairs of shoes ( I counted them). But know what--it was my fault for allowing it...
Howard
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i was forced to change with the circumstances...when i found out there was a baby on the way i became a super workaholic..in 2 years we went from living in a shitty apartment to now owning over 1.2 million in real estate plus a substancial cash flow...she dosent realize what it takes to make this happen...
When we met i was playing in bands and had girls over at the house every day..competition..
She wants the party guy, carefree musician who can hang out in the bar every day...she honestly dosent realize that all of this is a god send and it WILL NOT last forever and i need to pump it while it lasts...
She has just lost interest in me because she dosent have girls telling her how lucky she is anymore..so the sex life goes then i get even more introverted into my work then it spirals from there