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Originally posted by fiveyes
Once you've allowed someone to walk all over you, it's impossible to get on top of the situation. Let it go and get on with your life.
If you feel all that badly about it, look at yourself and figure out how you let it happen. Then, try not to allow it again.
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Well in most situations that'd hold true. But when you have legal agreements to tie somebody down, it's not true. I have complete control over this kid. If he wants to take it to extremes it'll be 1) small claims court in which he's forced to pay 2) drug screening at his work in which he'd fail (Best Buy) 3) police visits to his house
I don't plan on doing either of the two latter, but when you get right down to it I'm doing nothing legally wrong and he's doing everything legally wrong. I can do whatever I want to him at this point, and he has no say so in that (well he does, he can just agree to pay another month's rent and we can hopefully sell this place).