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Weird, you sound quite a bit like me.
I was in a similar situation, but couldn't really afford to move at the time... So I talked to my roommates about the problem. It didn't matter to them, and it didn't solve anything. It only stopped losers from coming over temporarily at best.
You need to realize this isn't something you should have to live with. You don't like it. If you aren't comfortable in your own home, there isn't any place to go. You just trap yourself in your room, pissed off. That can really drive you mad.
Don't feel 'bad' about it, or feel like you should have to go hang out and try to accept these losers at your house.
You might want to just move out, breaking the lease, or telling your roommate she needs to find another roommate, because you are moving out. Have you talked to your friends? Maybe you could move in with one of them? If not, maybe a small apartment for a little while, until something else opens up? Talking with your roommate might help, but from my experience, it didn't, not at all.
I say you should just get out of there. It's needless stress, and it's stupid to have to put up with this sort of shit. (just thinking about my experience still pisses me off) Moving out of there was the best thing I ever did for myself.
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