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Old 04-18-2003, 12:33 PM  
Tala
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Originally posted by delia
If you have a gf and she doesn't trust you it means she is right and you are probably cheating on her or if you aren't cheating yet you will be doing that soon.


I'm very sorry, but that's just wrong. Are you one of those women who plays psychological headgames with her bf/spouse/partner because you justify your lack of trust by figuring that your significant other will go out and cheat on you eventually anyway?

Hate to tell you, but if that's your mentality, then no man wants to be with you for long. Headgames suck, as do the chicks who play them. By not allowing yourself to love and trust him, you're pushing him into cheating, because no man wants to be with a woman who is so insecure about herself that she lets herself be duped into believeing that he will cheat on her eventually. The worst part is that you're duping yourself!


If he goes out and cheats on you, it's your own damn fault. Your mindgames and petty "feel sorry for me 'cause he's going to go out and cheat on me, I just know it, so I can't trust him" crap opened the door for him to fuck around.
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