Originally Posted by shimmy2

when i was married (note: mistake #1) a decade ago i was with a chick that weighed close to 300lbs. none of this mattered to me at the time as i was sold on the personality traits you guys were just describing. i had this preconceived notion she was more stable and self confident than most of the model types i had been seeing. i was wrong. at least in this case it was a huge overcompensation act on her part for a woman that was in shambles. in my 30s now i'm very biased in that i dont get with anyone who doesnt workout and take care of their bod, as its a reflection on other issues. i blog about this shit all the time