http://www.msnbc.com/news/892246.asp?0cv=HA01
"Question: I have an intimate question. I work in the adult industry as a Web designer. I have seen everything there is to see that people do sexually. Day in and day out I work with extreme porn. I?m certain this has dramatically impacted my self-image. After seeing porn stars with their massive penises and control over their orgasms, it has been ingrained in my mind that this is what women want, this is how big a penis should be and this is how long a man should be able to last in bed. With this mindset, the thought of having sex is rather unpleasant and off-putting ? even scary. Because of what I work with every day, I feel I need to match up to what I see. Any advice?"