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Originally posted by phogirl69
No, its just me and her on the lease. I don't know what to say about the bf thing, I guess I will have to talk to her later. It IS my fault, I admit, because I had a chance to back out before we moved in, but I didn't, I don't know why. I guess to be totally honest, I kind of don't have a spine sometimes like someone said earlier, I can be passive sometimes, but deep down inside I am VERY angry and irritable and probably not the easiest person to get along with either.
But then, one thing I forgot to mention, her bf helped me move some of my heavy furniture and stuff from my old place to my new one, so do I still have a right to be mad about him brining people over? Because I feel like I kind of cant because I owe him something but I am FUMING inside and it shows. I know they can tell that I'm angry outside and i dont want things to get even worse with more tension.
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you dont owe him shit. but if you wanna handle this nicely then tomorrow sit her and her boyfriend down and talk to them.
make them very aware that the situation that happened tonight will not happen again. you and her are roommates and there has to be an understanding between you about what is allowed and what isnt allowed. a few friends coming over to hang out every once and a while i can understand....but being a hangout for her boyfriends friends is not cool.
you really have to layeth the smackdown or it will just get worse.
if they are still there you are well within your rights to go out there and tell everyone to go home. if they dont go call the cops.
however, if you lay down rules...they have to apply to you as well....otherwise you are asking for trouble.
dont let people walk all over you.
and just for the record.....i assume you are an adult webmaster....so what exactly is a perverted sound?