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Originally Posted by Ozarkz
Just be happy you aren't in Iraq and you are healthy.
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Exactly. It's all relative. Anytime I start feeling sorry for myself I think about how damn good I have it in comparison to many people in this world. You could be one of those starving people in Africa. You could be in the middle of the shitstorm on the Gaza strip. You could be a homeless person right here in the USA.
But you're not. You need to recognize how well off you are in comparison to others and then start working your way back to where you want to be in life.
I'm on wife number 4 and believe me I KNOW how debilitating a divorce can be. And in my experience it's a process that you can't do anything about emotionally. I tried everything, including fucking every woman in town. But it doesn't help.
It will have to run it's course and then one day, out of the blue...you're gonna wake up and be OVER it. Then the rest of your life will start to fall into place.
The trick is to not be too self-destructive in the meantime so that you don't have a big mess to clean up with your life when the time comes that you are emotionally healed.
Good luck bro.