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I don't deny the feelings that they have - but they were created out of a relationship that wsa totally wrong. You hear it when people have affairs outside of marriage as well that they love the other person when that is wrong too. The heart is deceitful and can't always be trusted to know what is right - and when it feels such intense emotions it will always claim to be misunderstood, that the person feeling has a right to be in love no matter what anyone says.
What I do disagree with is the idea that they felt it necessary to tell others. Frankly it wasn't anyone's business - they should have sought out counselling from trained experts before admitting what they did. I don't think that stating the length and intensity of what they did and the sudden decision to stop means they are healthy again and everyone should move on and forgive. There was little remorse.
I have learned that through the years there are things I have done that I will live with that won't help a situation - that I would need to speak to a professional then cope. Same as these two.
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