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kane · 02-22-2009, 03:27 AM

I agree with what AG said.
I know for me I want the following things if I am going to promote a site:

1. A girl I think has a market. You sound like you do. I like alternative type girls and you sound like you fit that niche well.

2. Some decent promo content for me to use.

3. Her site looks good and is updated regularly.

4. The site is interactive. This is a must if it is a recurring only type of thing. If a girl does nothing with her site and never does shows or interacts with fans it gives very little reason for guys to stay around as members.

5. A "real girl" kind of feel. I like what AG said about self pics. You could do a really small update a couple times a week of just some self pics of yourself you took like, "Here is me getting out of the shower." or "This is me getting ready for bed" Or "This is me getting ready to go out." Cooking dinner, cleaning house in your bra and panties or nude, just fun stuff like that you could easily put up on the site.

6. The last major thing for me is the backing of some kind of major program and/or the knowledge that there is a decent amount of content out there to keep the site going. The landscape of the adult internet is littered with the sites of solo girls who were very into the site for 6-12 months then for any number of reasons (they meet a new guy, their family finds out, they get freaked out for some reason etc) they stop working on the site and it either sits there and collects dusts and doesn't rebill because it is not being updated or it gets closed down completely. If I have spent several months building up traffic and sites to send traffic to this site then it disappears, it was a lot of wasted time for me. If a bigger program is behind the site and/or there is a decent amount of content you can then rest assured the site will continue to exist even if the girl involved eventually bails out. I'm not saying you would do this, but there have been many who were good to go and looked rock solid then 6 months later are no where to be seen.

I have always thought successful solo girls are all about attitude and personality. Sure, looks are one thing and the guy has to be into your look, but in the end he needs to feel like he is your internet boyfriend of sorts and is in some way part of your life. So if your site can give him that kind of feel, he will stick around. A good example of this is a web girl I saw once who would go on her cam fully clothes (the most skin she would show was a belly shirt) and talk to the guys. She knew them by name and kept up on conversations with them. She did private shows for them and the shows would normally last a lot longer and she had a ton of guys in her fan club. Yes, she is good looking, but more importantly she made them feel like they were a vital part of her life and it has paid off nicely for her.

Good luck with the venture.

So that is my 2 cents.

02-22-2009, 03:27 AM
kane Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: portland, OR Posts: 20,684	I agree with what AG said. I know for me I want the following things if I am going to promote a site: 1. A girl I think has a market. You sound like you do. I like alternative type girls and you sound like you fit that niche well. 2. Some decent promo content for me to use. 3. Her site looks good and is updated regularly. 4. The site is interactive. This is a must if it is a recurring only type of thing. If a girl does nothing with her site and never does shows or interacts with fans it gives very little reason for guys to stay around as members. 5. A "real girl" kind of feel. I like what AG said about self pics. You could do a really small update a couple times a week of just some self pics of yourself you took like, "Here is me getting out of the shower." or "This is me getting ready for bed" Or "This is me getting ready to go out." Cooking dinner, cleaning house in your bra and panties or nude, just fun stuff like that you could easily put up on the site. 6. The last major thing for me is the backing of some kind of major program and/or the knowledge that there is a decent amount of content out there to keep the site going. The landscape of the adult internet is littered with the sites of solo girls who were very into the site for 6-12 months then for any number of reasons (they meet a new guy, their family finds out, they get freaked out for some reason etc) they stop working on the site and it either sits there and collects dusts and doesn't rebill because it is not being updated or it gets closed down completely. If I have spent several months building up traffic and sites to send traffic to this site then it disappears, it was a lot of wasted time for me. If a bigger program is behind the site and/or there is a decent amount of content you can then rest assured the site will continue to exist even if the girl involved eventually bails out. I'm not saying you would do this, but there have been many who were good to go and looked rock solid then 6 months later are no where to be seen. I have always thought successful solo girls are all about attitude and personality. Sure, looks are one thing and the guy has to be into your look, but in the end he needs to feel like he is your internet boyfriend of sorts and is in some way part of your life. So if your site can give him that kind of feel, he will stick around. A good example of this is a web girl I saw once who would go on her cam fully clothes (the most skin she would show was a belly shirt) and talk to the guys. She knew them by name and kept up on conversations with them. She did private shows for them and the shows would normally last a lot longer and she had a ton of guys in her fan club. Yes, she is good looking, but more importantly she made them feel like they were a vital part of her life and it has paid off nicely for her. Good luck with the venture. So that is my 2 cents.