hello everyone. i need advice. i am making a small group of sites for seo purposes. i have 6 of them already, 5 are in the first two pages in google, but, third made is somewhere deep in google and is not showing. its strange cause that keywords dont have big competition as the other sites, so it have to be up imho. 4 domains are .net, two are .com, the fucked one is on .net. i wanted to buy .com, but it was taken for few years, the domain is parked and there is nothing, the site was not listed in google, nothing, so i bought .net few weeks back. but, till yesterday ... because mine site was doing really bad, and i used same method like with rest of the sites, i thought wtf, so i tried to put up some backlinks to the site from pr3 and higher. now, oh my man, i was checking google, and mine site was not shown up, nowhere. so what the hell? i waited for about two days, and now wow! in google, in second possition, is the .com domain name, nothing there, only parked domain, but my site is not even listed! what the hell? is google that fucking with me? i checked everything and i made all backlinks to .net domain, so its not my fault, so why the fuck is some parked domain listed instead of mine, seo based, strong backlinks only from pr and google indexed sites, at second place and mine is after all that spam guestbooks fake sites crap etc? i am really going to be mad, so if you can help me and tell me what to do, if i have to change whole site and try it again, if there is any place where to see if my site is blacklisted, or any other idea what to do, it will be much appreciated!

and please, no "oh you lame newb" replies are needed, as i wrote, i am doing well with the rest five sites, you will be amazed, so please keep your ego for your boyfriend ... thanks in advance and wish you best with your sites!
cliff notes: i was making advertisement to mine .net domain and google shows empty .com instead of mine advertised .net. so what to do, build the site from the scratch? or ... ?
