Sounds like this is not your friends fault, so to blame him for doing his job well, is wrong on your part. He only told you what he was told... Sucks to be in any construction business in these times, as lies will be told more than the truth. Look into getting a permit for a perminate septic system, Infiltrator or the like. Hell you could even do some research on installing a fieldline gravel system yourself for less than 1500.00 and make it able to hook up to the permanent system if everything works out. Fuck the permits, move in and wait for the details to work out. As long as the dirt is able to perk, you should have no problem pulling this off. Best of luck!
I own a business with my bros, not easy, but at least i can trust them not to fuck me when I am not looking
