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Leave Aaliyah alone, she was having some fun with the guy...damn.
As far as 6 years without pussy goes, damn man...I am so sorry. I had a client when I was doing sex and relationship coaching that had been married for 17 years. She'd had sex precisely 7 times and never for more than 2 minutes. I also had a 36 year old female virgin and several older clients that hadn't had sex in 10 - 20 years since divorces or the deaths of their significant others.
It's one thing to get out of a relationship or suffer some sort of trauma and give sex up for a while or even permanently. While I'm sure there's more of a story here than "I just realized that I haven't had sex in 6 years"; to be in your 20s and refrain from the single most enjoyable, validating, intimate, wonderful act known to man is something you should seriously consider remedying. A visit to a sex therapist wouldn't be a bad idea. As a big proponent of escorts, I don't know that your first time back in the saddle with a date or a "normal girl" is such a good idea. A sex surrogate or a caring, sensual escort could bring you back and re-build your confidence much more reliably and with a hell of alot more skill and understanding. You want to get back out there feeling like you haven't missed a beat and have more to offer to a potential significant other than ever.
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