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Originally Posted by digitaldivas
I am friends with every ex of mine, since I was 15y.o. Fuck, they are all on my myspace. Including a 5 year and two 4 year relationships. I hear that's weird?!?
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Yep. I am the same way for the most part. There are a few that hold a grudge from back in the day, but I have apologized and left that door open. It's their issue now.
When I first break up with someone. I have a little cooling off period where I will not talk to them. But after a few months, I will talk to them if they initiate. I hold no grudges in my personal life. A lot of times it was timing or growing apart. Nothing you can really do when you fall out of love.
I still love, and care for all my ex's. Or most of them I was with more than a week. With most of them I would help them if I received a call. But all in all. The 'initiation' part of the relationship is up to them.
I still have a half dozen who keep in contact regularly and tell me their latest bullshit dramas. I have asked them all, 'why me?', they tell me it is because I am open minded, and non-judgmental. Which is true.
Everyone fucks up. However, some just will not admit to it.