This thread is disturbing on so many levels
I watched "Sicko" just last night and you wouldn't believe the shit that was displayed regarding our health care system. I wouldn't be surprised if this was true. I agree with getting a lawyer and quickly.
My deepest sympaties with you either way. If you wanted donations towards her health care costs, you might want to post the hospital so people could donate straight to that, then they wouldn't be so leery. People have asked for help before who then disappeared off the face of the earth. You gotta understand that.
Asking for help is a very very very hard thing to do and I give you kudos for trying, regardless. I have always had a hard time doing that and now I wish I had when I really was down and needed help badly. My boy still doesn't have an URN. He's in a cardboard box. I know how bad expenses are especially when you're grieving. Things are all foggy and you can't think or plan clearly. My funeral costed me thousands and there was no way around it or any payment options. Within 12 hours of death, you're sitting at the funeral home picking out caskets and stationary and shit. I hope you can pay for all that too.
And btw, it's not weird to be on gfy 7 hours after a loss. No one can judge what's normal reaction when you're in shock.
Anyway, I won't give you a "fuck you" like some. Just understand where they're coming from and I hope you can get a lawyer to help you get a payment plan in place for the hospital costs AND funeral stuff.