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Originally Posted by marketsmart
if you can truly control yourself without drugs and can interact with society without feeling the need to commit violence, I would really like you to talk to one of my friends when he gets home in a month or two..
he sounds alot like you except for he cant let go of the rage unless he does drugs...
maybe you could help him... its very said to see a good friend in a position in life where his friends dont want to be around him anymore because of his mental state...
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It's different for everyone, what they did, what they saw, what evils they take back with them, at a deep personal level.
What worked for me, may not work for others. A big factor for me was something simple. The question of WHY. Why was I mad, anger, upset, whatever. I would answer with excuses at first, to justify it to myself.. after awhile, I couldn't answer my own question.
Once I was able to do this, I was able to be helped by others. I would allow the help, listen to others, and so on. The only thing I can say that brought me to where I am today is my business partner and my wife. Without them, I would still be lost.
With your friend, you can ask him why
and you can wait.. and once he finally breaks, then you step in as a friend, get his family, and everyone rebuilds him - reteaches him, love.