Holy fuck... after days - I mean DAYS - of going back and forth and uninstalling and fighting spyware and trojans... I finally found one that is decent!
If anyone else is interested, check out Real Spy Monitor. I didn't get the email function to work, and it won't work on Vista (not with my settings, anyway..) - but it uploads via ftp and is clean.
Well, kind of. You have to manually type in the install directory and delete the PLUS program. After that it seems to be a low system resource option for monitoring employees... or children... or whatever.
Cheers all
