Originally Posted by Due

That is a somewhat strange comment.
Each parent will bring certain values to your child, I don't think it is possible to really say if one is better than the other, both values that a father and a mother is bringing is important for the child, obviously both parties love their kids and will do whatever they can to get the children to live with them, humans are selfish and we all think that our own values is the best, that is why we live by them
Parents can still have huge fights over the children without them hurting from it as long as the parents can figure out to seperate it and not involve the kids into it, that is where it fails for the most part
I don't think there is an all postive solution to when parents are splitting up and have to work out the custody, but can still be better than if the parents is staying together for the sake of the children if they don't get a long.