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Originally Posted by Sarah_MaxCash
They are at the very start and she is just making it so that when he wants to see the daughter she isn't available and that sort of thing. He does need to go protect himself as much as possible, I agree.
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tell him to go file a motion for access in the meantime with clearly defined terms. If he doesnt , the judge will say " then why didnt you ?"
In the meantime , record every single visit , time and phonecall.
Remember every time she denies a visit and there ISN'T a court order in place , she can just lie and say " he never showed any interest" , "didn't visit" etc etc then its just her word against his but the facts remain that she had majority of custody and he didn't. Everytime she dodges a visit it makes it harder for him to fight for equal custody.
A judge will say " if you wanted to share custody why did you not fight for it the day you weren't getting it , why didn't you come file for access the next day "
Ask any mom if they would just sit back and hope things get better if a FATHER had full (physical) costody of their child/children and wasn't sharing access