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Old 09-16-2008, 08:08 AM  
Sarah_Jayne
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Originally Posted by SmokeyTheBear View Post
how do you mean "starting to make it difficult" ? he either has court ordered visitation that she has no say over whatsoever or he doesn't and he needs to get it ASAP. He needs to make some very hard decisions right now that he has to remember will last the rest of his childs life. Yes you can change visitation at a later point but you can't give back a child attention it lacked.

I have gone through this situation and i have full custody.


Obviously a lawyer will help here but only if you make it very clear what you want . Not very many lawyers are very "ethical", they WANT a trial , they get paid more.

My lawyer went with 2 major points as far as the adult stuff. #1 is completely legal and the minor is not exposed to it in any way. #2 the ex never had any problems with it during the relationship

They are at the very start and she is just making it so that when he wants to see the daughter she isn't available and that sort of thing. He does need to go protect himself as much as possible, I agree.
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