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Originally Posted by Fletch XXX
this is all too hypothetical for me... i would never be in this position and dont really have anything positive to contribute...
but all is fair in love and war.
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Yeah, I get that. I won't likely ever have kids of my own but in my first marriage I had two step daughters. He was given custody of them in the divorce which wasn't all that common for men back then. He then had a bike accident and was in a coma for three months and the girls went with his wife for what was suppose to be until he was out of hospital and she never gave them back. She spent so much time re-programming them to forget good memories they had with him that it was only when they were in their very late teens that they were starting to have any real contact with him again. Not sure how much love was involved in that fight. Kind of makes me glad on some levels that I won't have kids.