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Originally posted by Angelie
I think you need a girls thought about this!
From what you are saying, there's NO FACT that she's going there to fuck him or anybody else. Do you think this way because you would do that? Do you not trust her? She shouldn't really stay with someone she doesn't know because of safety reasons but you should trust her if you love her! You want her to trust you in this bizness, so trust her on a little trip or why not GO with her!!!
Go with her problem solved!
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Angelie you bring up some valid points but let me give you a guys perspective.
There may be no fact that she's going there to fuck him or anyone but she should have the decency to ask you if this is ok with you before she decides and accept it if it's not.
You should trust her if you love her is very nice to say but can you honestly say you wouldn't get mad if your b/f you cared about told you that they were going to stay with some random girl in another country without so much as talking to you about it.
Trusting someone looking at porn all day and someone that is staying with a guy they don't know is 2 different things.
So many people are being hard on him but consider this, if he is worried about her cheating enough to even ask it does it really matter what she does? He will wonder about her trip for as long as they are together and it will only lead to problems down the line.
Also, not saying you are like this at all but most girls I have dealt with assume there is no problem doing things that they would NEVER in a million years let you do to them.