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Originally Posted by NikKay
I've been with straight men, allegedly gay men (my ex-husband), hot bisexual women, cute bisexual women, cute gay women, and butch gay women.
What butch women have that the rest of those groups don't have is a true mix between feminine and masculine qualities. They tend to be sensitive and soft and attentive... yet aggressive and dominant and really, really good with their mouth and hands.
I hook up with a bisexual girl when I want to throw someone around and I hook up with a gay girl when I want someone to throw me around. Men are fun and easy but better for friendships or long-term relationships... not so much for simply hooking up.
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Best post so far! ^^^^^^^
Who can explain what attracts anyone? Even in heterosexual relationships there are girsl that go for big muscular tough guys and girls that go for metro, sensitive skinny and/or short pretty boys. If a girl dates a "pretty boy" would you say "Why dont you just date a lesbian? Its the same difference?"
The differences between men and woman obviously go much deeper than just appearances or even equipment. Men and women have completely different mindset. Maybe there are women that are attracted to the "butch look" and may also enjoy being penetrated (dildos and stap ons) and the attraction to the female instead of the male with the same characteristics is the mind set difference.