Wow, surprised to see this bumped. Folks, my plight is not
that important, really

But thanks for caring... thanks for all the ICQs... and thanks to the trolls for showing me that I'm significant enough to be on their radar.
Here's an update... save for one person, the hotel has ignored all my calls and I'm sure wants this put to rest as do I. In fact I stopped caring about a week ago. I AM about 90% sure of who did this but doubt I will ever have 100% proof. And unless I'm ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN, I won't be outting anyone. I'm usually correct about my hunches and if it's the person I think it was... they are VERY new to the industry, and I know their boss. They have been alerted by me and and are now keeping their eye on this person and will handle accordingly.
Back to work ;)