I sat on the phone with my ISpo for an hour and they told me its not them - itasa a router soemwhere in US
i talekd to my hostin g- they are workign all fine when we look at traceroute
anyhow some sites havign probelms
my board (not allowed to post URL - GFY rules)
www.thegrapevine-network.com
www.sexrev.com
www.fresh-kitty.com
lots of other too many to name
its just freaked out coz someone down the street can see my site but not me LOL
but then i can see sites they cant
so who knows - think ill just go sleep instead