Look, if you really want to go out with your buds, it's an easy thing to ease into.
Step 1. Start having them over for coffee/cocktails like once or twice/month.
Step 2. Increase frequency of step 1.
Step 3. Have a friend invite both of you out.
Basicaly, get her used to just going out with friends. Show her that they're not the a-holes she thinks they are.
Step 4. Go out w/out her.
