The way I see it, you get what you want and then they go away. None of the hassles, none of the dramas. I only wish there were more options for women. I like the idea of taking advantage of a young boy in dire straits, give him a little money so he can buy his schoolbooks, make him my bitch for an hour or two, then kick his ass out the door and tell him he can't have my phone number - I'll call him if I feel like it.
Seriously though, from a "provider's" perspective: I don't provide sex, but as a dominatrix I do work in the sex industry and people pay to spend time with me - perhaps it's to get their ass beaten, maybe to have someone who understands their needs... some people come to me looking for a "relationship" and I hate that because I feel bad that I can't give them that. I try to be very upfront about what I do and do not provide. I like the folks that come to me knowing what they want, and knowing that there's no strings attached for either of us. A lot of the people that see me are very busy, come in for an hour or two and get their kink on, then go back to their work or whatever. That actually feels very healthy and normal to me.
