What others said..
1) Noticed no one told you how to enable SEF permalinks so, go to Settings -> Permalinks and choose something like "Month and name" so you can have
http://www.partyflings.com/14/07/pool-party/ instead
http://www.partyflings.com/?p=3
2) No empty or "broken" links. Your About page sux
http://www.partyflings.com/?page_id=2 its wordpress generated one. Remove it or write what is your blog about..
3) Get some new theme. Default one is overused and seen practically by everyone. Even the surfer knows what script are you running first 2 seconds. And it doesn't look good.
There are lots of free themes out there and you can upload few and see what fits the best.
Of course, the best thing you can do is buy some premium theme ( or see sig, hit me up and I can make you some custom ;) )
4) Use more tags, use categories & add more stuff at sidebar. Iframes, live banners, whatever.
5) Install some fancy plugins that will help you out. There are lots of threads out there, do some research and put what you need.
Try to choose attractive stuff when you post. Maybe I'm not right but this picture isn't attractive at all:
http://www.partyflings.com/videos/7-...enshots/01.jpg
I don't think average surfer would like to see that LOL. Maybe the chick is hot but that picture is fugly.
When you do everything mentioned above, start submitting your blog and trading links. Everything else is nice updates with lots of text, SEO work etc.