Quote:
Originally Posted by webmasterchecks
it must be like having a lot of money, then losing it. you get accustomed to being the girl that gets hit on 100 times a day, then it slowely tapers away, or the quality of the suiters diminishes. im sure it has to hit like a brick and be tragic towards your self-esteem.
i loved and dated a girl for a long time, then we broke up. its a particularly sensitive subject for me because i felt like i "used her up" during her prime courting/child bearing years. i dont think that guilt is ever going to leave me.
|
she didn't get used up. you are looking at it the wrong way. to think you "used her up" is an ego trip! its sad that you think that a woman only has her looks to offer and when she starts to age she doesn't have anything left, that she is no longer releavant and viable. that is such crap! maybe you think of that way because of this industry. but a woman has so much to offer other than her beauty.
maybe the only thing you should feel bad about is spending nearly 15,000 on your hair and not on her. that your vanity means more to you than the happiness of someone you claimed to love.
and i am sure she is still just as lovely and as worthwhile as she ever was. she can still have kids. and i bet she doesn't have regrets for having spent those years with you. you shouldn't taint something that was meaningful with regret.