Okay... Let me see if I can help on this one... The paypal system can be slow us for a number of reasons, and that is being worked on, believe me... but there is a workaround on that... when you put in a paypal payment, send an email to legal at moniker.com (it can be a really short email) so that we know the payment is there, can credit it to your account, and don't have to wait for it to go through the approval system... this only works if you have ACTUALLY MADE the payment via paypal (which I am pretty sure you have)...
As for the 4 pages of extra stuff, Pipecrew... when you are done getting the things you need, just click on "shopping cart" and check out! It bypasses all the other pages (some people actually do need that extra stuff)...
Hope this helps! If you need further help on either of these issues, feel free to give me a yell via ICQ or email. Cheers!