If she hears you refer to her as your "old lady" the choice of music will be a moot point
Being a truly old lady, there are some Phil Collins, old Genesis songs that get me going

And there's nothing like Barry White's voice to start an engine, hehehe Though I do admit there are also times when Aerosmith, Billy Squire and Dave Matthews do it too....hell - just get a handfull of CDs, put it on random and go for it
