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Originally Posted by budsbabes
giving up your life for your kids is selfish? staying up all night, giving up on social life, working extra to provide ... all horribly selfish acts ...
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most of those that do it do it because they want to, they want something out of it, they want the pride of having some spawn, they want someone to play sports with or watch play sports or dance with and play dress up with or whatever, they want the companionship of having a kid, they want the idea that when they get old that someone will be their for them, it is selfish, not saying that selfish is a bad thing, but at least acknowledge that those that plan and want a family are doing it because that is what they want which in itself is selfish
if you want to be totally selfless, anonymously do all that stuff for someone elses kid and then disappear after you are done, that would be more a definition of non-selfish