Originally Posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude

Since this is your first post, you are most likely a fake nick, equating love and sex just to rag on me, nonetheless, I will try to give you a straightforward answer.

Depending upon your definition and personal beliefs, beating-off might be considered cheating...

Without going into detail, I explained to my wife before our marriage that I had sex with literally hundreds of women before her, whom I did not love, and therefore, I would probably continue to have sex with other women that I did not love after marriage, but that she would always be my one true love.

I have kept faithful to that for 28+ years (as much as I hate giving away the fact that I am an old fart).

Not all marriages are as you might imagine them to be, but I cannot imagine not being married to the one woman that I truly have loved most of my adult life.

I realize that not all people in the adult biz are of the same mindset as my wife and I are, but at least I have attempted to be honest about such a personal subject.

As many of you whom know me know, I try to keep my personal life separate from my adult biz life, so please excuse me for stepping out of this thread now, which deals with some very real subjects that confront married people in the adult biz, as well as married people in general.

Continue on with the discussion though, since I do think it is an important issue for married people and single people alike to confront and address...

ADG