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Old 06-19-2008, 10:44 PM  
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Originally Posted by pussyserver View Post
Thanks for the well wishes ADGWD

I just used the DR as an example... but seriously man I mean all bullshit aside

I am starting to think that marrige might go against human nature. I see meet couples who no longer sleep in the same bed and the union is more a partnership than anything

to open up about my own personal life... yes..... marrige has aged me and taken all the excitement out of my life

the only thing left to do now is pay taxes and die

I often stare at the dark ceiling at night while my wife sleeps cozy on the other side of our overpriced bed

and I think about the world out there

I think about flirting with women

I think about getting drunk with the fellas

I think about driving my car fast on the interstate

and I think about having fun

I remember being invited to a party every week... always happy...

no stress

not caring what the future held

being married has made me feel vulnerble and out of touch

blah

im just ranting... I love my wife more then anything but geesh theres got to be more to this than what meets the eye
Perhaps you can discuss this with your wife and tell her that you want more of a social life. I don't think she'll be upset about it if you give her the impression that you want to include her in it. Obviously she's not going to let you bang 18 year olds from Myspace, but I suppose that when you get married and aim to create a stable and comfortable homestead you lose touch with the social scene and she might be excited with you about reconnecting to it.

Maybe a little bit of fun can reverse the aging process that marriage has accelerated (at least mentally).

Edit: I've never been married, so I'm still bright-eyed and idealistic about the prospect. These words should probably be taken with a grain of salt.

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