Originally Posted by datawookiee

Right that's more or less what i was thinking, and I'm thinking it might resolve things you know, because being who i am, I'm naturally suspicious of anything that seems too good to be true, and it honestly does. So I'm thinking like "grab the bull by the horns" and whatnot.
Worst case scenario, ill be drunk in Spain for a full week(and somewhat depressed but its not like it wont pass.)

So the benefits outweigh the possible negative effects. I mean sure if its like some of you have said, that he\she has a significant other in their lives. Then I'd be fine with that.. apparently my assessment of this particular person was completely off and I'd be better off in the first place. However due to things i haven't mentioned here to keep the posts fairly short, i doubt that is the case.