datawookiee

So alright, hypothetically if you had someone you really liked, living in say.. Spain.
And you were from, Denmark. You had both agreed on meeting in Amsterdam for the weekend, and Its a very long time since you last saw him/her.
But, because of unforeseen circumstances he/she couldn't come after all.
So you offer to go to Spain instead of meeting up in Amsterdam(the other option being going to Amsterdam alone). The other person responds by saying "No, its too soon too meet up where i live, I'm not ready etc."

Would you do as they tell you and have a shitty weekend in Amsterdam alone or would you go to Spain and see what happens?

I'm Personally leaning towards going anyway.. but input would be nice.