Originally Posted by Defiance Inc

Just the mere fact you're wasting your time taking out a person you have no interest in tells me you're on the wrong page. So, not only are you wasting your time, but the other persons time and feelings. When you can approach, be honest, and still score, then you got game. You may not need confidence on the short, but any real woman will see right through your shell and rip you to shreds. Women can smell desperation from a mile, and lack of confidence is a symptom of desperation.
Keep trying, you'll get there.