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Originally Posted by Ayla_SquareTurtle
You are preaching to the choir here. I agree 100% that things should be FAIR. I also think that the FIRST measure should be what is fair to the CHILD not what is fair to the mother or father. After the child's needs are taken care of, then the parents' needs come in to play, and as long as both are safe and sane people, they should have 50/50 custody and split costs equitably.
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whats fair to a child is that parents be required to be licensed to have children, requiring them to show proof of income/earnings and education as well undergoing psychological evaluations and parenting training before they are even allowed to have a child and after that, they are closely monitored for parenting competence... if they fuck up and have kids outside that system, both parents should be sterilized.
