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Originally Posted by Rochard
That's bullshit.
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There are some guys like that, but please tell me you don't actually believe that ALL stories go the same way? It's just not like that all or even most of the time. There still need to be MAJOR improvements made to the system but just because some guys are getting shafted doesn't mean that there are a shit ton of loser men out there as well.
What about guys who pay a fair amount and are able to see their kids 50% of the time but still don't bother to show up to pick them up from school? Because that does happen as well. As a matter of fact, if you want to talk about family members, how about this little gem of a story? My nieces father left her stranded at school the other day because he's a loser idiot. Just didn't bother to show up for her. He was into having a kid before she was born, but once she arrived, he changed his tune. Her mother WANTS her dad to see her, be involved in her life and keep her half the time, but the guy JUST WON'T DO IT. Since he wouldn't do it and she was having to keep the kid 95-100% of the time she did eventually HAVE to ask for support just trying to get by, and was awarded a VERY minimal amount. He refuses to pay, and since he won't get a job except for waiting tables, and since most of his pay is in the form of tips in cash, she can't even get them to garnish his wages. So basically now she has to take care of the kid 95-100% of the time AND pay for everything, yet in the middle of this, she is STILL allowing him to see his daughter on the RARE occasion that he decides to show up. She practically BEGS him to see her, and the little girl just doesn't understand why daddy forgets her at kindergarten.
Now are you telling me this is an isolated situation? You really think there are no deadbeat parents out there who are just plain losers in life and not a pitiful victim of the system? I don't hate dads or men, I have a great dad and know lots of great fathers, but not all guys who impregnate a woman are saintly men who want the best for their children.