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Originally Posted by wyldblyss
I'm not hating on you, but I am going to offer some advice. First off, don't discuss your earnings in public, it really isn't anyone's business. Also, don't hate on someone if they are hating on you, trying to put someone in their place that is putting you down rarely works to your benefit.
For example, you made a comment that you got paid very well, and then implied (at least in my opinion) that he did not make much with your "if you could afford to visit shows" but that all went to hell when you later said you spent $3k of your own money which was 3 months earnings to you on an event. Well, $1k/month to many in this industry would be considered dismal earnings.
The thing is, there will always be haters, don't try and "win" simply ignore them. Many people on here are very experienced at board drama, arguments etc. and it is simply not worth your time to get into verbal battles as one day, they always come back to haunt you.
As for your earnings, although some would consider them dismal, you are relatively new to the industry so you most certainly, with continued hard work earn far more than you do now  For serious business women in this industry "winning" is simply showing everyone how capable you are at doing your job, and proving to the haters they were wrong about you.
Best of luck.
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Thanks wyldblyss.
I dont discuss my earnings in public.
Those earning are from when I first started and are totally irrelevent to today ,its like you telling me you earned $4 a hour at mcdonalds as a student ,it was described and detailed in the context of the subject and events of that time.
I dont hate the poster or anyone Im just giving a basic static response with no real emotion actually although it may come across different..... im actually smiling
Yes I was well trained for these drama events

so you will not see me having a meltdown
Thank you so much for the advice and for spending your valuble time to type it,I appriciate your help/support
Claire XXXXX