Here's a tip,
Read up about adult blogs, get a domain, preferably niche and a niche that you like yourself. Get a cheap virtual account at a host, set the blog up with either a free theme or a paid one (You can get decent paid ones for $20 with install). Start writing niche keyword rich posts to your blog daily, several times per day is even better. Search for adult blog tutorials.
ohh btw, dating works great on blogs, see sig
