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You know it's funny you post this because i just went through this with my woman about a month ago. Women typically have the "if you have nothing to hide then what's the big deal" response but it's not about that. It's about our personal space. Every human is entitled to their personal space. Men tend to need it more as that's just how we are bread. I dont go through any of my fiancess things, i dont open her mail, i dont bother her clothes, i dont do any of that. Women tend to want to open our mail, check our phone, change the way we dress, everything. It's all about personal space and even tho we are together as one, we are still two human beings. No, I dont have anything to hide but that doesn't mean you have to remove every ounce of privacy that i've ever known. We did not get into a relationship for that. Sure, you can look through my phone. If we're sitting there and you pick it up then that's one thing, but to do it behind my back is sneaky and means she doesn't trust.
It's not cool and it's an invasion of privacy.
My questions is this.....Once you are in a relationship, are you no longer entitled to privacy?
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